Alternative Therapies – Life According to TJ

Oh it’s back – well it never really went away – but my menopausal symptoms seem to be back with a bang. This time I am more determined to do something about it. If procrastination was a degree course I would have sailed through years ago. Sadly, it’s not – but what it has done has stopped me making any progress. Apparently, procrastination is, in fact, an emotion regulation problem. According to this article from the New York Times, procrastination has just as much to do with self-doubt as lazyitis!

I’ve read too many books on the subject of self help, by too many people and at the end of the day they all say the same thing – at some point in time you’ve got to get off your arse and help yourself. Like many lazy people, I like to hope that there is a magic wand, or a quick fix just around the corner that will instantly turn me into a svelte, toned, tanned goddess, but sadly not. I just have to get on with it.

I’ve carried out very extensive research on HRT (I asked my two mates at the pub) and have concluded it’s not for me. They had both tried, for very different, specific reasons and neither of them found it was right for them an in both cases it didn’t fix the thing they had most wanted it to. Both also said they had put on a lot of weight very quickly, which they have struggled to shift since stopping taking the tablets. I have experienced that myself, in 2005, when I was given some drugs to control bleeding. The bleeding was controlled, but I also put on 2 stone in weight in the space of a month – a good stone of that has never shifted and I am loathe to experience that again.

I did also go to the library and found a fascinating book, ‘Your menopause Bible‘ by Dr Robin N. Phillips – husband has been thrilled to learn some menopause facts he never felt he needed to know! One thing that I have learned is that HRT and Endometriosis don’t go well together. Although I have had a hysterectomy, any endometriosis deposits still wallowing around on my bowel or bladder will respond to the hormones in the HRT as they would have were they still inside the womb. Basically taking HRT risks firing up the Endometriosis again – and I really don’t want that to happen.

What I have found fascinating is the heap of symptoms that can be attributed to menopause. I knew all the obvious ones like hot flushes, sore boobs, weight gain, menopause brain – but have been quite shocked at others! Dry eyes, for example – what’s that about! It would appear that pretty much anything that goes wrong with a lady of a certain age can be attributed to menopause. I can only be thankful that post hysterectomy I don’t have to deal with some of the more painful physical symptoms alongside the emotional fiasco that I have become! Insomnia is still the worst – some days I do just feel like I’m wading through treacle!

So – I have thrown the kitchen sink at it! As a consequence I won’t really know what it is that has worked the best and why, but there we are. I have:

Started taking Menopace night time multi-vitamins to help with sleep.
Started using magnesium body lotion before bed every night – apparently magnesium aids good sleep and there is method in your granny’s madness in having epsom salts in your bath every day.
Started using an essential oils mix of ylang ylang, clary sage and thyme in fractionated coconut oil which I massage into my stomach, thighs and ankles four times a day. I got this remedy from FemFusionFitness. Dr Bri is a qualified women’s health physiotherapist who is herself investigating a natural approach to menopause and has all sorts of nuggets of advice and information
Diet – not as in diet to lose weight – but as in making choices to support my body and avoiding those foods that I know upset me. I find this really difficult as I don’t want to be that awkward person that everyone rolls their eyes at in a restaurant when they say ‘I can’t eat that’. As I said before – I’ve been waiting for a magic fix – it doesn’t exist, so I’ve just got to crack on! I have to say the big struggle for me is giving up my Soya lattes!
Made up a Bach Flower remedy containing mimulus (for known fears), aspen (for unknown fears), walnut (for change) and hornbeam (for can’t be arsed).
Set myself the target of walking 10,000 steps a day as a form of gentle exercise alongside yoga – I do generally enjoy exercise so this is giving me a focus and hopefully is something I can still manage in Bristol and Portugal.
Entered the Midnight Walk for St Peter’s Hospice as a focus for my walking and to give me a commitment to keep to. I’ve entered with a friend – which always makes a difference for me and we’ve entered the 10mile version – so I need to be fit and able for it!
Started taking Pukka clean Chlorella – not a clue what that does – but it’s high in vitamin B12 and D – which apparently is good for menopause!

So there we are – off on the menopause roller coaster – I’ll get back to you on how I’m progressing.

I’ve recently begun investigating Essential Oils. As you know, I do like a bit of voodoo joojoo and this is right up my street. I also love learning and have been doing an online Aromatherapy course. So all in all, what’s not to love?

It has been a bit of a learning curve – I didn’t jump straight in with using the oils but took some time to understand more about aromatherapy. Besides the online course, I have also borrowed a couple of books from the local library to help me understand more about what they are and how they can be used. When I did take the plunge I bought a small introductory kit from DoTerra. I was first introduced to the brand by my kinesiologist who prescribed the peace blend to help with poor sleep and anxiety. DoTerra are everywhere, pretty much every google search you use for Essential Oils brings them out at the top. Their products are beautifully packaged and very well marketed. DoTerra products seem to do wonders, so many people swear by them and I have to say I was hooked. I could see the potential for addressing my sleeping problem and digestion issues. On top of that, as they operate as an Multi-Level Marketing company (MLM) I could see earning potential and was starting to get really excited. Eventually, my very English and very cautious brain kicked in.

My first question. Are DoTerra products organic? I make a big fuss of making sure that facial and body products that I use are free from everything known to man and as far as possible, organic. And here I was willy nilly using products that I couldn’t be certain were organic. They themselves state that they cannot guarantee that their products are organic. Part of this is because every country has their own rules regarding organic certification, it would be impossible for them to achieve organic status across the world. I understand that, but unfortunately, knowing the oils I buy and use are organic is important to me.

The second thing that had me wondering was the use of DoTerra oils internally. Every other brand of essential oils that I could find were labelled ‘for external use only’. So why could I take DoTerra internally. I have to admit, whilst I was drinking a glass of water with a drop of Lemon in I did question my sanity. Surely, if I wanted lemon flavoured water then I could just squeeze some fresh lemon into to glass. When given instructions to use the oils internally DoTerra recommend that you use a glass or steel container, as plastic ones disintegrate over time. Which did also have me questioning how safe they were for internal consumption. It would appear that I am not the only person with this question. I found this article from Empowered Sustenance which explained the current situation well. They aren’t totally scathing of DoTerra and the products that they produce, but do point out that as yet there is not enough scientific evidence to support the claims that you can safely use essential oils internally. Whilst I might well love the voodoo joojoo, if what science does exist, isn’t backing it up 100% then it’s not really for me. I do appreciate that I am a little fastidious in this and am sure I am being over-cautious!

The third thing that caused some concern was regulation. I do like a bit of regulation. Much as I like to try complementary therapies I do always ensure that those companies and products that I use belong to some kind of organisation to ensure quality, high standards and, I suppose, are as safe as they can possibly be. Aromatherapy, like many complementary therapies doesn’t have an official ruling body, so you do have to be careful. In the UK, however, there is an organisation, the Aromatherapy Trade Council which does monitor the industry and the standard of the essential oils that are sold here. It isn’t compulsory, companies that produce essential oils don’t have to be members of the ATC, but it seemed to me that any company that was prepared to meet the standards laid down by the ATC, would be more interested in providing a good quality product that was safe to use.

Here in the UK we also have the Soil Association, who are the standard for all things organic. Many organic suppliers and producers aspire to achieve the soil association standard, and it is a good indicator of the quality of a product if it displays the soil association logo. So I had two ways to enable me to find good quality organic essential oils. I double checked this by visiting our local health food shop and sure enough, they only stocked brands that appeared in list of those products with both ATC membership and certified by the Soil Association. Even if some of the oils weren’t organic, the companies are able to guarantee the sources of the essential oils and are able to state that they are ethically harvested.

The final thing which concerned me about DoTerra was setting myself up as a salesperson for aromatherapy oils. I don’t have a qualification on this, I’m doing a bit of an online course, for my own interest. This doesn’t qualify me for handing out advice to other people, or making recommendations for how people can treat themselves. I appreciate that as an advocate for the company I wouldn’t be making people buy the products, that is their choice, and consumption or use of essential oils does come with a certain degree of risk, but it just felt like a can of worms I really don’t want to be opening. I don’t know that I want to take that risk myself.

So the list of companies I have identified for my use, those that are members of both the ATC and the Soil Association:

Neals Yard

The Aromatherapy Company

Absolute Aromas

Materia Aromatica

Aromantic

Not the longest list ever known to man, but certainly enough to keep me interested in learning about how I can include essential oils as part of my own health and wellbeing routines and certainly easily accessible to me here in Bristol. I also know that by using products from these organisations that I am also supporting British companies. So for the time being, DoTerra isn’t the brand for me, it’s not a no, just a not for now.