This past week or so I’ve been getting a bit deflated, I’m not going to lie! There seems to be a price for everything.
My inbox and Facebook feed has recently been filled with sale after sale after sale. Buy a mindfulness course, buy a neuro-science course, buy a spirituality course, buy a yoga course, buy a Qi Gong course, buy a meditation course. But then it suddenly hit me, why do I have to pay for all of this stuff, surely there has to be enough out there for free. And so, I set off on my google search and sure enough there is plenty that is available that’s free of charge.
As you know, I have this mad fool dream of paddling across the sea on my paddle board, and there has been some progress as I have had a swimming lesson in the sea. Sadly, since the aforementioned lesson I have been without a car, so have been unable to go for a second one, but believe you me, as soon as I can I will be going for a second swimming lesson in the sea as I progress towards my goal. The other thing that really needs to be improved in order to achieve my goal is to strengthen was is currently a very weak core, in a safe manner appropriate for a woman of a certain age!
You Tube is always a great place to start if you are looking for anything. I already follow:
- Yoga with Adriene
- Yoga with Kassandra
- FemFusion Fitness
After a short while searching I also came across:
- Videos by Women’s Health Magazine
- Walk at Home by Leslie Sansone
- PopSugar fitness
- The Body Coach – although some of his workouts are a bit beyond me at the moment
And since when did you need to pay money to meditate or pray, at the end of the day it involves sitting quietly on a chair or a school with a timer going, dependent on how long you wish to sit there. You don’t have to download a fancy app with a million different types of meditations. I’ve been reading ‘Untamed’ by Glennon Doyle and I read recently that Adele accredits the book for her dramatic recent shift in outlook on life. Glennon herself says she started meditating by just sitting in her closet for 10 minutes a day, and after a while it became easier and she could sit for longer. No fancy app, just sit.
Another quote I read in ‘Untamed’ was ‘This life is mine alone’. I am the only person on this planet with these skills, these talents, these people. I am the only person living this experience, in this body, that’s this shape, with these health problems – so what is the point in trying to be like someone else? Of trying to make an exercise programme that’s designed for somebody completely different fit me as best as it can. There is absolutely no point at all, because I am not the same as everyone else and they aren’t the same as me – what suits one person is not going to suit another and a one size fits all really just doesn’t work that well. Obviously, I am prone to over thinking and this set me off thinking about that old saying ‘keeping up with the Jones’. You could have exactly the same things as your neighbours, same car, same house, same tv – but you can never be the same. Ever.
You can apply this to everything – social media, marketing, exercise, everything. The whole kit and kaboodle is based on us all being the same! Where’s the point in that!
I found this to be incredibly refreshing!
So, I have decided that I am going to try and get on to my paddle board for free! Just by using free apps, or programmes, or pins on Pinterest and rather than just pay someone to tell me what to do I’m going to try to put together a programme that works for me. A diet that works for me. Not doing what someone else tells me I should be doing, especially as I am mindful of a weak pelvic floor, a need to build up my core and the ever-present fibromyalgia. There are also so many opportunities for exercising free of charge in Portugal, walking, cycling, swimming, exercise equipment in the parks and I don’t have to worry about poor weather stopping me getting outside into the fresh air.
Having said that, I will still pay for swimming lessons in the sea – they are a need to get me on the paddle board, and I will still pay for yoga lessons, as this is also a social activity for me and having contact with the other members of the class is beneficial to my mental health. I am sociable by nature, so I do need to have some human interaction. I also appreciate that I am in a fortunate situation in that I already have trainers, a good sports bra, a bike and access to technology to do the online exercises, so don’t have to spend money on bits of equipment to get going. Beyond that, I am going to reward myself with a €1 a day for exercising and will spend that money on equipment should I need to replace anything during the course of the challenge. In an ideal world I would complete a Personal Trainer instructor course so that I can safely advise other women of a certain age, how they could add exercise in to their lives in a safe and consistent manner, but that’s just out there for the universe to decide at the moment so in the meantime, I shall just share what I’m doing and the progress I am making.I’m just off to unsubscribe from all of the sales emails in my inbox and am quite excited by the challenge of finding new and different ways to improve my fitness, without creating a huge hole in my bank balance.